I need feminism because most men’s restrooms still aren’t equipped with baby changing stations. As someone who was married to a man who had sole custody of his young son, I’m hyperaware that feminism means EQUALITY, not female superiority. Feminism should and does support a man’s right to be as much of a parent to his child(ren) as any mother is allowed/expected to be.

This is a constant problem for Mr. Tea and myself. We’ve got twins, so even though I can change one kid on the change table in the ladies’ room, he’s left standing sort of awkwardly in the lobby with a messy child while I change one, come back, and get the other.

Nobody’s suggesting that men aren’t parents, so the lack of change tables goes well beyond ‘gender role reinforcing’ and straight into ‘ridiculous’.

My dad actually almost got kicked out of a mall once for changing my brother in the womens room of a mall. The only reason they didn’t call the cops on him was because the ladies in the room supported him.

I’d never even considered this but I support it

Supporting the shit outta this

I support this. I support men who want to be actual parents and not just a novelty in their kid’s lives like my dad was

This is definitely necessary. Thank goodness when kiddo was still in diapers, the bigger malls had Family washrooms. But I know my partner got frustrated if he and our kidlet were ever out alone and he needed changing. Fathers that are a part of their kids’s live and active parents  need the support (any and every parent does!) but for men, it isn’t there in the most basic ways.

This is Halloween 8-Bit




Reblog to spread the SPOOPYNESS!

Someone please make bouncy 8-bit sprites…

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(9.23.14) — Another morning in Amerikkka. Somebody thought it would be fun to desecrate the Mike Brown Memorial early this morning. I… I really can’t even. #staywoke #farfromover


Here’s a picture of some cops watching the memorial burn although there seemed to be no police at the scene when the fire department arrived.

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October is the awareness month for every single one of these!

Don’t just go pink!


Signal boost like there’s no tomorrow!

I have faith in you tumblr!

We can raise awareness for the awarenesses!

We can do this!

I have celiac disease and this is the first time ive EVER seen it being supported besides the little groups of people who all have it. This actually means a lot because it isn’t just a joke or diet its legit. THIS IS WHY I FUCKING LOVE TUMBLR

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How can people see Emma Watson being verbally attacked online and threatened with hacked nudes being released by men because of her speech on gender equality and still think we don’t need feminism. It’s not women who make men out to be some evil creatures, you guys do that well enough on your own.

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Its horrible that we live in a world where this is happening

I feel like I’ve been doing this ever since I got my car. Always be aware of your surroundings. Always.

Should we be telling women that they have to be switched on 24/7 and check their car every single time they enter it or should we be telling men not to fucking do this shit

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It’s Bi Visibility/Celebrate Bisexuality Day! Learn more and find ways to celebrate in your community here. Fellow bisexuals, I salute you! 

Happy Bisexual Awareness Week!

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